IF YOU WANT TO GATHER HONEY, DON'T KICK OVER BEEHIVE
This title will certainly catch more than half of the people in baffling battle. In simple terms, there is only one way under high heaven to get anybody to do anything. One can enlist flurry of tactics to deal with people.
For instance- one can make people like him/her through power,pelf and money. Youths can captivate people towards them with his dadhind looks. A head of a company can incorporate his employees by threatening him. But all these are on a temporary basis. To generate permanent and forever liking for any one isn't everyone's cup of tea. Everyone in this world runs behind name and fame. Each and everyone aspires and craves for praising and appreciation. The ultimate and only way to make someone like the otger petspe is only by satisfying the other person's damand. Essentially, everyone craves for few following stuff:
1) HEALTH
2)FOOD
3)SLEEP
4)MONEY
5)SEXUAL GRATIFICATION
6)A FEELING OF IMPORTANCE
All these wants are usually gratified and virtually satisfied except for one demand. This demand is extremely significant, as imperious as possible. And that is A FEELING OF IMPORTANCE AND GREAT. Who doesn't want importance and attention?
Apparent answer is EVERYONE DESIRES FOR A SENDS OF IMPORTANCE. In my view , one and only one way can materialize and eventually spot on. This is by far the gnawing and unfaltering human hunger.
UNLOCKING AND UNLEASHING THE MYSTERY TO BE LIKED BY EVERYONE:
"A person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
Essentially, one must and should remember or at least make an effort to remember the other person's name. It makes him/her feel a sense of importance. It crystal clearly differentiates and makes a deep impact which eventually transforms and culmites towards a LIKING of one person for the other. Its has a magical and stupendous positive effect on the other person's heart and mind. One can develop this flair through little effort.
There are volley of stories where people who have this habit of remembering NAMES creates a surrounding enshrouded with people who make him/her glad enough. It's just these small gesture that transforms an ordinary person into an extraordinary guy. The connotation are impactful and it inevitably persists in a person's mind.
One such story;;;;;;
Jim Farley ,in an interview was asked to reveal the secret of his resounding and scintillating sucesss. Initially,he claimed HARDWORK. But the interviewer digged him deep. Jim Farley countered him with a cross question- "what u think is the core reason for my success"?
The interviewer spontaneously replied,
"I understand you can call ten thousand people by their first names" .
Jim Farley corrected him , by claiming the mark is FIFTY THOUSAND.
Over the years as his business empire exapnaded, he subsequently built the habit of remembering NAMES. In the beginning,it was purely and fairly simple. Whenever he encountered a new aquaintance,he found out his /her complete names and some knocking facts about his/her family. He ficed all these facts well in his mind as a part of the picture, and the next time he met that person, even if it was a year later, he was able to shake hands ,inquire after the family,and ask about the holloyhivk in the backyard. Jim Farley discovered early in his life that an average prison is more interested in his /her name than in all other names put together on earth. Once you address a person with his apt name, one fact is for sure, you have given the best and sweetest compliment he /she can take it.
But ,one preventive and precautionative measure is one got to spell and pronounce the name of other person CORRECTLY otherwise dice of destiny might turn againt you .
Hence ,
Remember that a person's name to that person is the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Try it and I bet from next you won't face even an iota of difficulty to attract and captivate people towards you.
~SUJAL
For instance- one can make people like him/her through power,pelf and money. Youths can captivate people towards them with his dadhind looks. A head of a company can incorporate his employees by threatening him. But all these are on a temporary basis. To generate permanent and forever liking for any one isn't everyone's cup of tea. Everyone in this world runs behind name and fame. Each and everyone aspires and craves for praising and appreciation. The ultimate and only way to make someone like the otger petspe is only by satisfying the other person's damand. Essentially, everyone craves for few following stuff:
1) HEALTH
2)FOOD
3)SLEEP
4)MONEY
5)SEXUAL GRATIFICATION
6)A FEELING OF IMPORTANCE
All these wants are usually gratified and virtually satisfied except for one demand. This demand is extremely significant, as imperious as possible. And that is A FEELING OF IMPORTANCE AND GREAT. Who doesn't want importance and attention?
Apparent answer is EVERYONE DESIRES FOR A SENDS OF IMPORTANCE. In my view , one and only one way can materialize and eventually spot on. This is by far the gnawing and unfaltering human hunger.
UNLOCKING AND UNLEASHING THE MYSTERY TO BE LIKED BY EVERYONE:
"A person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
Essentially, one must and should remember or at least make an effort to remember the other person's name. It makes him/her feel a sense of importance. It crystal clearly differentiates and makes a deep impact which eventually transforms and culmites towards a LIKING of one person for the other. Its has a magical and stupendous positive effect on the other person's heart and mind. One can develop this flair through little effort.
There are volley of stories where people who have this habit of remembering NAMES creates a surrounding enshrouded with people who make him/her glad enough. It's just these small gesture that transforms an ordinary person into an extraordinary guy. The connotation are impactful and it inevitably persists in a person's mind.
One such story;;;;;;
Jim Farley ,in an interview was asked to reveal the secret of his resounding and scintillating sucesss. Initially,he claimed HARDWORK. But the interviewer digged him deep. Jim Farley countered him with a cross question- "what u think is the core reason for my success"?
The interviewer spontaneously replied,
"I understand you can call ten thousand people by their first names" .
Jim Farley corrected him , by claiming the mark is FIFTY THOUSAND.
Over the years as his business empire exapnaded, he subsequently built the habit of remembering NAMES. In the beginning,it was purely and fairly simple. Whenever he encountered a new aquaintance,he found out his /her complete names and some knocking facts about his/her family. He ficed all these facts well in his mind as a part of the picture, and the next time he met that person, even if it was a year later, he was able to shake hands ,inquire after the family,and ask about the holloyhivk in the backyard. Jim Farley discovered early in his life that an average prison is more interested in his /her name than in all other names put together on earth. Once you address a person with his apt name, one fact is for sure, you have given the best and sweetest compliment he /she can take it.
But ,one preventive and precautionative measure is one got to spell and pronounce the name of other person CORRECTLY otherwise dice of destiny might turn againt you .
Hence ,
Remember that a person's name to that person is the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
Try it and I bet from next you won't face even an iota of difficulty to attract and captivate people towards you.
~SUJAL
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